Monday, September 5, 2011

Finally Parents Met


The parents finally met. She, her parents and her sister came to my house and met my parents and my sister. She was looking gorgeous as she always does when she wears a sari. 

And probably for the first time, I saw her shying. That was not something which she forced upon herself (given the facts that Indian brides are expected to act shy in front of their in-laws). It was spontaneous and something which looked out of her control. No matter how much I like her for her forthrightness, it felt so good to see her in that avatar – the one of an obedient and abiding daughter-in-law.

There are 2 occasions of that day which I remember very distinctly. Not long after she and her family had come and settled, I looked at her and I found her looking downwards, attentively listening to the ongoing conversations, and for a change not saying anything. The expressions on her face were just plain simple. She was just nodding her head after every statement. It was closest to how I would describe innocence if asked by someone.

Later in the evening, she, my sister and I went to the Bandstand in Bandra (our parents had suggested that place so that we can spend some time out). We 3 were sitting on a wall when she spotted some birds in the sky. She then said how she wished she could be like them. While saying this, she was swaying her legs. She looked like a kid. A kid draped in a sari or rather caged in a sari – puerile and pristine.

Anyways, things went okay. Parents have approved of us being together and have given us time to pursue things we want before we decide to settle down and marry. I could not have expected for anything more or better and can only thank our parents for gifting us this life.

3 comments:

Shreya said...

wow congrats congrats to both of you :) such a sweet description of her :) i am sure she would blush even when she'd see this. But i'd tell you a secret of why we girls shy in situations like these i.e because its less of blushing and more of nervousness silently praying that all settles well and nothing goes wrong.
may God bless you both.
adios

Ankit said...

Thanks a lot for your wishes Shreya :)

Sauc said...

So final release of your software. :D
With all the 'media' attention and stuff. Like the original ones. :P
No you have your own and wont need pirated stuff. :P

Congrats anyways to both of you... ;)